understandin

really dont know what title to give to this post....well everyones life has ups and downs and i guess everyone wishes not to have the downs but to live life happily but i guess life would never be so interesting if it just had the happiness and nothing wrong ever happened..if we never lost anyone we would never realise the value of people in our lives..... i can say without doubt that everyone has lost someone or the other in there life .... someone so close to us who we still miss...whose absence still makes u cry ....someone whose remebered so often ... for whom perhaps we dont need a sad song to make us cry just the thought of that person brings a tear to your eye....

i guess some people mean so much to you but you never realise it until you lose the person and i guess you fear to tell them about your feelings..... i guess in life you meet so many people some who r something on the outside and something else from the inside..and some who show that they are really bad but actually they are really gr8 ....i guess its so difficult to understand such people u dont understand whether to like them or hate them or what to do...... every action of people you care for hurts like hell but still u dont seem to hate them instead u care even further......


i guess there really isnt any aim of tis post just to make people realise that what you see isnt allways the truth... what you think isnt allways right... you dont need to lose a person to realise there value ......

Attitude

Well am an orkut member and well dont know whether its gr8 but i get quiet a lot of friend requests and i guess while browsing through most of these profiles i notice one word in common ---- ATTITUDE
I really truely wonder do people actually know what attitude is ..... most people think being rude trying to act oversmart or showing off are character traits that identify with the word ATTITUDE...in the college i go to quiet many students are from a hindi medium background and i guess this causes a gr8 inferiority complex among them and the so called english medium people try and increase this gap by either being rude or trying to express that you are from a hindi medium background....i do not believe that what sets u apart from others is the kind of background you come from but instead the way you carry yourself,the way u potray urself certainly ur background makes a difference but not to an undefinable extent and if it does make a difference u have to try and reduce the difference..... because your life is in your hands ... dont wait for an angel to come down and transform you .... its not necessary that alwayz the other party takes the first step you have to do that ..... At everystep in life you have to prove yourself have the confidence that you are no less than others that is the Attitude....... you have to stand for the hard right against the easy wrong that is attitude...... showing you arent the same is attitude.....
certainly i would not include character traits as being rude ,or showing off, acting oversmart to be related with Attitude i guess everyone has an attitude a few use it in the positive way and some dont use it...
so i guess for all those who consider thenselves inferior be it looks wise,personality wise,background vise you really need to indulge in soul searching because you need to understand your true potential... your looks arent wats gonna take u farther in life instead its ur personality and that only you have the ability to enhance in a positive way....

Awarapan

hmmm welll went for a movie awarapan and i guess it had quiet an effect on me .. i guess no doubt the movie was awesome ... two things made a difference -the love story, the freedom factor...i guess it was a love story so different from the usual stories really wish such a love story was in real life ...doesnt everyone wish to have someone who would support them ,love them no end,care for them i guess it was all that and maybe more..todays people have forgotten what you mean by love i guess its such an undefinable thing... i dont think it can be expressed in words...it was nice to see a totally different concept . i guess todays people should definately watch it .. i guess we need more films like vivah , awarapan for tis generation becoz the only thing that todays generation knows is doing stupid things and just doing timepass with whosoever no doubt am a part of tis generation but definately i think though it was fiction i would prefer a love story of that kind.....

the second thing tat made me think was the freedom factor ...no matter how much we say tat we are free but we seriously r like the birds in a cage..free within our cage but still in a cage...... because you r free if u can decide everything on ur own if u have the ability to stand up to ur expectations be wat u want to be and not wat the world want u to be ....
i guess people cannot understand the meaning of freedom ... anyways i guess tats it and i guess the movie is surely one to be watched

lifes a Tragedy or is it Beautiful

Well really dont know how to define love everyone says lifes beautiful but is it really tat beautiful..being optimistic is gud but not facing realities with the excuse of being optimistic is dumb..when leaving school i really was so optimistic so happy tat soon i would step into a real world but if the real world is such tat people haven forgotten the meaning of humanity..people r highly selfish...people r with u till ur happy and then wen ur sad tey change company...and tat too those people u call FRIENDS.....
i guess lifes full of ups and downs and ii guess if there where only gud things in life maybe life wont be so challenging but i guess people really need to change there attitude just becoz everyone throws rubbish on the road and just becoz everyone else spits on the road doesnt mean u start off too instead we need people who would go and pick up tat rubbish and stop people from spitting on the road ... a world would be so much better if people really cooperated if tey had the courtsy of stopping to help get a person medical aid instead of for standing there and watching the show..if people didnt use u instead were thankful for all you did for them ... why do u love only those people who r ur own why not those who r as such humans why not take two minutes to stop by and take a person to the hospital u would do tat if tat person was ur own son daughter father mother etc ...it is such a pity tat god gave u a heart but forgot to tell you wat feelings are ,forgot to tell u wat its like losing someone u love heartedly,forgot to tell you wat it feels like when u trust someone with ur heart and soul and tat same person talks behind ur back well i guess with so many things life sure doesnt seem beautiful..no doubt the world was created beautifully but its the people who r ruining it ... everyone here talks about attitude ...thinks they r classy but hello doesnt everyone think the same... doesnt everyone show there so called attitude but how r u different from others?think over it u r all the same ..u too have broken someones trust ..u too have betrayed someone... u too have been a witness to all that has happnedned in your city but never raised a voice to it....wwhy ? what happened to ur am not scared attitude..huh its just all fake
if you really wanna be unique common get up ,awaken coz ur country calls for u ,nature calls for u nature has done its duty and is still doing it but now its ur turn wake up fight or the hard right against the easy wrong,dont take shortcuts to sucess work hard ... dont close ur eyes towards evil.....
AWaKEN BEFORE ITS TOO LATE MAKE AN EFFORT MAKE LIFE REALLY BEAUTIFUL BE DIFFERENT , BE UNIQUE

paradise

I guess its a really tuff thing to give tis post a title but anyways its just a post done to refresh my memories my memories of a paradise where life seemed so much like that of a fairly tale , a paradise which we left and of which we have only memories...i guess its easy to guess out school my school The DAly College Indore... the early morning that we used hate never knew we would once want all that to return ...the teachers about whom so much was said never realised they would mean so much to us at one point of life.... the pranks the cheering the geering everything is missed so much ...never thought world outside DC was so different so much like a tragic story where words like trust faith friendship humanity meant practically nothing and all people thought was how to get there job done by hook or by crook....even if it meant playing around with peoples feelings....its truth that until u dont get hit by the realities u never seem to understand the real world....once all tis meant nothn it all seemed ridiculous and our world revolved around friends ,sports,teachers,pranks,cheering,geering,early morning assemblies,boring leactures,sleepy eyes but now the importance the beauty of tat life comes bbefore us .... never thought would be so difficult to get used to the reality of life after 12 beautiful yrs in DC ..... i guess there arent words to express how much i tresure my school,the time spent there the friends i had , not a day goes without thinking about the amount i used to grumble abt things at school like the early line ups,the long school hours,the 8 lectures in a day , the uniform of which everything i miss now ...really wish someone pinched me and i would wake up to find the same people the same teachers shouting for sleepin in class but then life moves on doesnt it ..i guess am just very grateful to my parents tat i got to go to DC and to all those people who have made a difference in my life from my teachers to my friends......i guess i can never stop writing about my school the late evening functions ,the yummy samosas,the teachers day celebrations,the football grounds,the busy people ,....practically like a smaller world in a larger one....not to forget the cultural feast the most awaitied cultural feast the speciality of the doon guyz for the gurlz and the mayo and rkc gurls for the guyz..... the mixing of so many students the cultural events the excitement on winning and not to forget the yummy food of the DC mess ..... there really isnt an end to the amount i can write but i guess am at a loss of words ..... so tats all for now just the way i started my life at DC the same way am starting my blog with a post of my paradise