Saturday, July 28, 2007

understandin

really dont know what title to give to this post....well everyones life has ups and downs and i guess everyone wishes not to have the downs but to live life happily but i guess life would never be so interesting if it just had the happiness and nothing wrong ever happened..if we never lost anyone we would never realise the value of people in our lives..... i can say without doubt that everyone has lost someone or the other in there life .... someone so close to us who we still miss...whose absence still makes u cry ....someone whose remebered so often ... for whom perhaps we dont need a sad song to make us cry just the thought of that person brings a tear to your eye....

i guess some people mean so much to you but you never realise it until you lose the person and i guess you fear to tell them about your feelings..... i guess in life you meet so many people some who r something on the outside and something else from the inside..and some who show that they are really bad but actually they are really gr8 ....i guess its so difficult to understand such people u dont understand whether to like them or hate them or what to do...... every action of people you care for hurts like hell but still u dont seem to hate them instead u care even further......


i guess there really isnt any aim of tis post just to make people realise that what you see isnt allways the truth... what you think isnt allways right... you dont need to lose a person to realise there value ......

Tuesday, July 24, 2007

Attitude

Well am an orkut member and well dont know whether its gr8 but i get quiet a lot of friend requests and i guess while browsing through most of these profiles i notice one word in common ---- ATTITUDE
I really truely wonder do people actually know what attitude is ..... most people think being rude trying to act oversmart or showing off are character traits that identify with the word ATTITUDE...in the college i go to quiet many students are from a hindi medium background and i guess this causes a gr8 inferiority complex among them and the so called english medium people try and increase this gap by either being rude or trying to express that you are from a hindi medium background....i do not believe that what sets u apart from others is the kind of background you come from but instead the way you carry yourself,the way u potray urself certainly ur background makes a difference but not to an undefinable extent and if it does make a difference u have to try and reduce the difference..... because your life is in your hands ... dont wait for an angel to come down and transform you .... its not necessary that alwayz the other party takes the first step you have to do that ..... At everystep in life you have to prove yourself have the confidence that you are no less than others that is the Attitude....... you have to stand for the hard right against the easy wrong that is attitude...... showing you arent the same is attitude.....
certainly i would not include character traits as being rude ,or showing off, acting oversmart to be related with Attitude i guess everyone has an attitude a few use it in the positive way and some dont use it...
so i guess for all those who consider thenselves inferior be it looks wise,personality wise,background vise you really need to indulge in soul searching because you need to understand your true potential... your looks arent wats gonna take u farther in life instead its ur personality and that only you have the ability to enhance in a positive way....

Tuesday, July 3, 2007

Awarapan

hmmm welll went for a movie awarapan and i guess it had quiet an effect on me .. i guess no doubt the movie was awesome ... two things made a difference -the love story, the freedom factor...i guess it was a love story so different from the usual stories really wish such a love story was in real life ...doesnt everyone wish to have someone who would support them ,love them no end,care for them i guess it was all that and maybe more..todays people have forgotten what you mean by love i guess its such an undefinable thing... i dont think it can be expressed in words...it was nice to see a totally different concept . i guess todays people should definately watch it .. i guess we need more films like vivah , awarapan for tis generation becoz the only thing that todays generation knows is doing stupid things and just doing timepass with whosoever no doubt am a part of tis generation but definately i think though it was fiction i would prefer a love story of that kind.....

the second thing tat made me think was the freedom factor ...no matter how much we say tat we are free but we seriously r like the birds in a cage..free within our cage but still in a cage...... because you r free if u can decide everything on ur own if u have the ability to stand up to ur expectations be wat u want to be and not wat the world want u to be ....
i guess people cannot understand the meaning of freedom ... anyways i guess tats it and i guess the movie is surely one to be watched