Tuesday, July 24, 2007

Attitude

Well am an orkut member and well dont know whether its gr8 but i get quiet a lot of friend requests and i guess while browsing through most of these profiles i notice one word in common ---- ATTITUDE
I really truely wonder do people actually know what attitude is ..... most people think being rude trying to act oversmart or showing off are character traits that identify with the word ATTITUDE...in the college i go to quiet many students are from a hindi medium background and i guess this causes a gr8 inferiority complex among them and the so called english medium people try and increase this gap by either being rude or trying to express that you are from a hindi medium background....i do not believe that what sets u apart from others is the kind of background you come from but instead the way you carry yourself,the way u potray urself certainly ur background makes a difference but not to an undefinable extent and if it does make a difference u have to try and reduce the difference..... because your life is in your hands ... dont wait for an angel to come down and transform you .... its not necessary that alwayz the other party takes the first step you have to do that ..... At everystep in life you have to prove yourself have the confidence that you are no less than others that is the Attitude....... you have to stand for the hard right against the easy wrong that is attitude...... showing you arent the same is attitude.....
certainly i would not include character traits as being rude ,or showing off, acting oversmart to be related with Attitude i guess everyone has an attitude a few use it in the positive way and some dont use it...
so i guess for all those who consider thenselves inferior be it looks wise,personality wise,background vise you really need to indulge in soul searching because you need to understand your true potential... your looks arent wats gonna take u farther in life instead its ur personality and that only you have the ability to enhance in a positive way....

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